stop pretending

stop pretending

I do it too, just not as often. Not anymore. I don’t know when but I just stopped pretending that things were good when they were not. I stopped pretending that I was lucky when I wasn’t. I stopped pretending that I care when I don’t, and that doesn’t make me much fun...
make them tea instead

make them tea instead

I may not be very handy with power tools but I am comfortable enough around a keyboard, which is why I undertake all my own website building. I’m not really good at it by any stretch of the imagination and it definitely takes me a few flyovers to get right, but at the...

it’s not complicated

It’s not complicated. Dream it.  Plan it.  Work for it. But sometimes it all falls apart. Sometimes we get in our own way. Sometimes, we tell ourselves stories that don’t serve us too well. We await big opportunities, seek inspiration and puddle jump from...

an Elephant and some Cherry Pie

  Isn’t our perception of reality funny? Funny in the sense that while we all believe truth exists, the actual colour, shape, and form it holds, is often filtered through our own, limited, best guess scenario, set of assumptions. We hinder and distort reality by...

you see what you want to see

  Seeing things for what they are, is a tricky business.  I relearned this week that the human mind, before it hears or accepts any new information, grapples with it first and decides where it will put it. You decide your response before you listen. ...