try not to follow

  Trust yourself. Believe in yourself. Follow your heart. I know its hard.  Very certainly uncertain. Full of pitfalls and fraught with failure.   It’s a hell of a lot easier to follow the herd. Much simpler to just follow along. A lot safer to do...

you see what you want to see

  Seeing things for what they are, is a tricky business.  I relearned this week that the human mind, before it hears or accepts any new information, grapples with it first and decides where it will put it. You decide your response before you listen. ...