heavy fog

heavy fog

There is a heavy fog that hangs over you when you are unable to make a decision. It hangs and lingers, suffocating your day and the only way to lift it is to decide one way or another where you wish to go. It’s not easy. Decisions are often complex and there are...
the ‘who am I’ complex

the ‘who am I’ complex

Who am I? Who am I to think that anything I do will matter? Who am I to think that I can accomplish anything important? Who am I to believe I can make a dent of difference? And who put the silly idea in my head that I can become a writer or that anyone will ever want...
playing shy

playing shy

I am of the strong opinion that being shy masks itself as a form of misdirected pride. You might disagree, but as a person who played shy for most of my life, I have a hell of a case to make. I think fear is at the root of all our shyness but when we don’t contribute...
she who hesitates

she who hesitates

She who hesitates is lost, or at least really, really inconvenienced. Call it what you will, be it hesitation, fear, laziness, insecurity or procrastination, whatever identity you choose to give it, but remember that he who hesitates is most truly lost. She is missing...