don’t fight the flow

don’t fight the flow

The best made plans always seem to change. It is inevitable. Yet the way we look at things we imagine things to be stable and expect them to be exactly the same the way we found them, even if that was only fifteen minutes earlier. But the only constant in our life is...
that time in between

that time in between

How truly magical is that time in-between Christmas and New Years. I have never noticed it as intensely before but it is a guiding star we need to follow.  Time somehow stands still. We know the year and the month and the season, but the days seem to blur and...
life is a highway

life is a highway

Life is a highway and there is even a song about it. We are born a Hyundai Elantra, a Ford 150 diesel truck, or perhaps, if you’re lucky, a sleek and shiny Jaguar or an Austen Martin. We are born with a particular skill set. We have an engine, four wheels and a tank...
new plans

new plans

Plans change. Learn to expect and accept it.  They have to change. It would be super silly to think otherwise yet many people stubbornly and sometimes desperately refuse to change and desire nothing more for things to remain the same. But things can’t remain the same....
strength

strength

Many of us consider ourselves weak. We believe that we lack the necessary courage and force to do and be who we want to be. We hide behind phrases like ‘I’m only human’ and we continue to believe the story that we lack strength. I’m going to use my bullshit card on...
it doesn’t matter

it doesn’t matter

It doesn’t matter how you feel right now, how you want to hide, run away, and don’t know what to do with yourself. I mean it matters because you matter, but all of the things that are making your feelings race inside your being in a million directions are going to...