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quieting those voices in our head

quieting those voices in our head

There are always voices in our head and there will always be voices in our head. It is who we are, it is who we are meant to be. But the important thing to remember is that we can influence those voices in our head, and furthermore if we can’t influence them, we can...
change

change

Rolling with change is tough to do for most people, but if you do, you can take solace in the fact that you’re living a fulfilling life. How you cope or embrace change says a lot about who you are. If you stiffen, brace yourself, and have to get dragged in a new...
weekend quotable no. 125

weekend quotable no. 125

Those who are easily shocked should be shocked more often. Mae West   The world is full of sensitive people. Full of well meaning people, and sometimes not so well meaning, who try to model the right way to live, but very often they are surprised and shocked by what...
weekend quotable no. 124

weekend quotable no. 124

Those who control the present, control the past and those who control the past control the future. George Orwell   You must take control of your present reality. Your life, your dreams, and in fact the well being and happiness of those that are connected to you depend...
a rough day at the office

a rough day at the office

I don’t think it would serve anyone any good if I only wrote about the ups but hid or avoided writing about the downs. Yesterday was a down, one of those drafting days that strings itself into our lives once in a while, or often. I will spare you most of the details...
done over easy

done over easy

Done over easy. That’s how I like my dreams early in the morning, with a side of home fries, and a hot coffee; two creams, no sugar. Done. One syllable. One single point of focus. Completion and a conclusion. When it comes to work we are funny people. If we are...
the value of making connections

the value of making connections

The Value of Making Connections   Learning to communicate effectively is not something you can do or master in one day, but rather, it’s something you have to challenge yourself with everyday in order to live with purpose. Effective communication is not an option and...
spotting a made up crisis

spotting a made up crisis

Not every crisis is real and it’s important to know the difference. Without knowing the difference between a real crisis and a fake crisis, you’ll end up doing a lot of work, a lot of hurting, all the while misdirecting you time for nothing. A crisis needs to stand...
crisis

crisis

Time is at a premium these days but it has always been, we just never noticed and it is never going to change. The more you love and engage yourself in a meaningful life, and as the things you love to do multiply, they will steal your time as they push and pull you,...
weekend quotable no. 123

weekend quotable no. 123

Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another. Madonna   You bore a heavy cost when you were educated in a public education system. It’s sad really, because well meaning people with well meaning hearts convinced and trained you to comply and be...
weekend quotable no. 122

weekend quotable no. 122

Don’t withdraw, don’t surrender, don’t give up. Roméo Dallaire   Never withdraw and never surrender to negative thoughts and to unwelcome criticism. Never surrender to your mistakes and heap fulls of failure, or to anything else that forcibly intends to suffocate your...
whatever it takes

whatever it takes

Create a life of doing whatever it takes. Not blindly and unethically of course, but a life that will push you to become someone you might not think you can become. Do whatever it takes, so that you are always growing. Do whatever it takes, so that you leave this life...
a thousand different ways

a thousand different ways

We often get stuck looking for the way to do something and we probably picked up that habit in school. We learned that two plus two is four, that its not five or six or seven. We learned what the proper capital of a country and that water boils at one hundred degrees...
don’t reject yourself

don’t reject yourself

Don’t reject yourself. There are plenty of people that are willing to do that for you. You no longer have to reject yourself. It’s not your job description any longer. You can let go of the burden and responsibility. Consider yourself set free. Free to no longer...
she who hesitates

she who hesitates

She who hesitates is lost, or at least really, really inconvenienced. Call it what you will, be it hesitation, fear, laziness, insecurity or procrastination, whatever identity you choose to give it, but remember that he who hesitates is most truly lost. She is missing...
begin

begin

There is no better time than to begin or begin again, and it no matter, today is the day where you start or continue what you started. A journey of a thousand steps begins with the first one. This one. The one you’re going to take today, which will lead to the one...
weekend quotable no. 121

weekend quotable no. 121

A good photograph is knowing where to stand. Ansel Adams   There is nothing more uplifting than a good photograph. There are so many cameras everywhere and everyone has the in their pocket. Technologically speaking they are all superior to the equipment Ansel Adams...
weekend quotable no. 120

weekend quotable no. 120

Sometimes, what you’re looking for is already there. Aretha Franklin   It is very ironic that you have to go somewhere in order to find yourself. It is very bemusing that you have to travel the vast world several times over before you will discover the undeniable...
a waste of time

a waste of time

After almost two decades in the public sector I can say from experience that meetings are a waste of time. Development days, staff meetings, or any kind of meeting that might be on the agenda will never be effective. I think their aim is to prove that something was...
four oh two

four oh two

The opportunity clock sounded off at 4:02 am this morning. I’m still calling it the opportunity clock because it is. Alarm clocks a terrible way of looking at it because although I was shaken awake, it was something I wanted and desired. Of course, if I didn’t have...